Hi! I am eager to present my column “Diaries of a Thought Daughter.” This concept was inspired by my constant never-ending thoughts that I don’t have an outlet for. My thoughts seem to come and go like clouds, and some thoughts or insights never come back twice. This will give me a way to look back on my thoughts and potentially be somewhat relatable. My plan is to list random thoughts that I have throughout the day — some being detailed, and some being simple. Hopefully everyone can relate in some way or my thoughts will trigger you to think!

-I feel like cops are mindful when it comes to morning trips to work. I never see anyone get pulled over in the morning and have never been pulled over myself as I drive 20 miles over the speed limit in an attempt to not be more than 10 minutes late to work.

-I want to learn rapper lore. After watching the super bowl performance 2 months ago and deep-diving into the drama between Kendrick and Drake, I have a serious interest in devoting some time into learning more rapper drama. This will be my new version of reality television.

-I am addicted to tik-tok. I am beginning to learn that I have an unhealthy relationship with it. When I don’t have plans with others, I am constantly on the app. This has been preventing me from reaching self-improvement goals. I seriously need to limit my time on the app. But I cannot delete it because it does bring me joy lol.

-Mentally, I am in the process of discovering that I need to love myself because I often seek validation and love through others, which always leaves me disappointed. I come across as a very confident person, but in reality, I overthink every interaction and feel unloved if others aren’t consistently reaching out and spending time with me. This is a toxic way of living got myself and others. I need to discover ways to give myself the love that I seek from others.

-Has anyone made a version of Tinder, but for animals that are put up for adoption? It is on my to do list to figure out how to do this. I have convinced everyone around me to get a cat and would love to support.

-I have come to the realization that I make too many assumptions and never pay attention to the facts in every given situation. For example, I was subbing for an elementary school class and noticed that one individual was seated by themselves in the corner and was the only one not working. She had her headphones in and was watching Youtube videos. In my mind, I decided that she was an ADULT. I didn’t make her do work ALL day. I was so confused when she played with kids at recess and was lining up with the kids. In matter of fact, I told the kids in the back of the line to quiet down, and immediately felt bad because they were TALKING TO THE “OTHER ADULT.” Regardless, I did NOT question any of it. It was a total fail because I always assume my initial assumption is correct lol.